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Lovers, the other day I read this:
No pressure, no diamond.
– Thomas Carlyle
Do you know it? Do you know the feeling lover? The breath holding, eye squishing, stomach scrunching anticipation before you give the nod. The positive pressure of eustress, taking you to a new edge. And the woooosh of the exhale, acute mind boggling awareness of what you just did; the exhilarating release. The sudden ‘all stations are go’ because you made the declaration, so it’s game on to make it work.
All that daydreaming, and vague chatter about what you could do. All that one-day-ing. Trust that we all do it, no matter where we’re at. Just that some of us act quicker than others, some of us leap and pray hard as they plunge into their future. Others pray and wait for perfect conditions. Sometimes they come, and then sometimes we wait an eon.
Sometimes we crash hard, and sometimes we hit the ground running. There are no guarantees, but if we knew what to expect… wouldn’t that just suck the fun faster than a Hoover.
I wonder lovers…
What is it worth to raise your stakes, higher?
What if you tried a different method entirely?
What is worth to be open, clear and vulnerable?
What about moving your body in a new fashion?
What about moving your body and your things?
What if you used your time differently today?
What if you put a limit on it? And stuck to it.
What would happen if you upped your value?
What if you exposed a secret side of yourself?
What if you said yes? Or no? And never maybe.
What if you made an effort to pimp your standards?
What if you sought out new knowledge in a strange place?
What of taking time to feel out your emotion instead of raging?
What is it worth to acknowledge the love around you without fear?
What if you set off a glitter bomb, and applied a little pressure? Tested your limits, with love. Leapt into abundance? There is no one right way, but there is always your own distinctive style.
Is it worth reaching a new perspective or understanding?
Is it worth a new mindset ready for the next challenge?
Is it worth that expression on every one of their faces?
Is it worth a better result? Or just a different one?
Is it worth the freedom to explore, everything?
Is it worth the space to rest, find peace?
Is it worth learning you can do that?
Is it worth meeting your soul face to face?
Is it worth stretching your mind, or boundaries?
Is it worth finding your own kind of pure joy? Jubilation?
Is it worth finding out what sort of magical stuff you’re made of?
Is it worth holding a diamond in your hand? A sparkly rocking orb, refracting light in the direction of your next adventure? Fashioning it into a charm you carry with you always, not for luck, but as a reminder of how totally magnificent you are.
Yes? Unreal. Go for it.
No? Too nerve-racking? Well, what about that other thing you wanted to do then? Don’t think I was going to skip over that one. Start small if you have to lover.
How might you put a little pressure on lovers? What is drifting about your orbit that you can’t ignore anymore? What do you want to say yes to, and up the stakes? Because when you up the stakes, you up your game. You learn how to wing it and become more resourceful. You end up agreeing to deliciously crazy nonsense you never would have.
And trust me lovers, you’ve definitely got game. We’re just waiting for you to bust it out.
Yours in Nonsense,
Casey xo
P.S. Might you share this nibblet of loving nonsense? Email, Facebook or even print it out and pin it up somewhere with a dreamy view?
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